I have a "thing" about telling Evie she's pretty. Because I have such a hang-up about my looks, I want to teach her beauty is more than your physical appearance. So when I tell her she's beautiful (about a million times a day,) I also tell her other qualities she has that I admire.
Me: Evie you are so beautiful! And smart. You are smart. Smart means you know a lot.
Me: And you are also kind. Kind means you are nice to other people.
Me: And you are so generous. Generous means you SHARE with others who don't have what you have.
Evie: No! No! No!
Still working on the sharing thing...